Ever wonder what to do with your hands during a high-stakes meeting or presentation? 👋 You're not alone. It's a common question I get in my workshops. The answer? Stop thinking about them. Seriously. When you're chatting with friends or family, you don't consciously think about your hand movements. They just naturally complement what you're saying.

In professional settings, people often become self-conscious. Hands end up in pockets, on hips, or behind backs, which can make you look like you've got something to hide. The key is to avoid repetitive gestures and fixed positions. Let your hands hang loosely by your sides and let them move naturally when you feel the impulse.

Some clients initially find this awkward. They worry it'll look strange. But think about it: have you ever seen a toddler standing with crossed legs and one hand on their hip? Probably not. Kids are naturally grounded; their body language is open and free. So, next time you're in a situation where your impact matters, let your hands do what they do naturally. Trust me, it'll make a difference.